About the work itself.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching. Therapy treats mental health; it heals your past. Coaching builds action, structure, and follow-through in your life.

If you need clinical care, I'll point you toward it. Coaching complements therapy — it doesn't replace it.

What does 1:1 include?

Weekly 1:1 sessions (structured, not rambling): we identify what matters most this week and what needs to change.

A simple weekly plan built around your real bandwidth (not a fantasy routine).

Pattern tracking: what triggers you, what keeps you stuck, and what reliably helps you recover faster.

How much time does it take?

Less time than staying stuck takes.

Practically: weekly sessions (consistent cadence matters), and small steps between sessions — think minutes per day, not a second job.

I've tried therapy and books — why this?

Because knowing isn't doing. Books and therapy can give insight.

Coaching is where we turn insight into implementation.

The honest money question.

How much does it cost?

This is premium 1:1 support. It's priced like it because it requires real capacity, real attention, and real accountability.

I'll share the exact investment after the intro call once we confirm this is the right lane for you.

Why don't you publish pricing?

Because the price isn't what determines whether this works. Fit is. The intro call is where we figure out whether we should work together, and only then does pricing make sense to discuss.

Is there a less expensive option?

Yes. Resilient Rebuilders — the 13-week group cohort — uses the same frameworks at a significantly lower investment. Join the waitlist here.

Doubts about whether it's the right time.

What if I'm not ready?

If you're waiting to feel ready, you'll be waiting forever.

Readiness usually shows up after you start.

What if I'm scared you'll judge me?

I'm not interested in judging you. I've been where you are.

You won't be punished for being messy.

What if I cry the whole time?

Then you cry the whole time. Sessions are structured but not rigid. Your nervous system gets to do what it needs to do.

What if I don't know what I want?

That's what the intro call is for. You don't have to come in with a plan — you have to come in honest.

Who this works for. And who it doesn't.

Who is this NOT for?

People in active crisis. If you're in crisis right now, please reach a clinician or call/text 988.

People seeking therapy or diagnosis. Coaching complements clinical care; it doesn't replace it.

People wanting rescue without doing the work.

People unwilling to do anything between sessions.

What kind of loss do you work with?

Spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend. Sudden and anticipated. Recent and old. The frameworks travel.

How recent does the loss need to be?

There's no timeline. I work with people three weeks out and ten years out. Grief doesn't expire.

Do you only work with widowed people?

No. My personal experience is widowhood — I'm a widowed father of three — but the work I do isn't loss-type-specific. The frameworks apply to most kinds of significant loss.

The practical questions.

How do I apply?

Fill out the application here. It takes 2–4 minutes. I read every application personally and respond when I can.

What happens after I apply?

If we look like a fit, I'll send you a link to book a 20–30 minute intro call. We get honest about what's happening and what's keeping you stuck. If we both want to work together, we start the following week.

Where do sessions happen?

Video calls, weekly. Same time each week so we hold a consistent cadence.

How long is the commitment?

I ask for an initial 12-week commitment because grief work compounds — a few weeks isn't enough to see real signal. After that, we go week to week as long as it's serving you.

Next step

Still have questions? Apply anyway.

The intro call is the best place to get specific answers about your specific situation. I read every application personally.

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